but if you do ask a question on here and its urgent, go on my other blog and ask me an anon question saying “check your other tumblr “
useonce-and-destroy- asked: your background. I love you.
I love you too!
Anonymous asked: Rant:
I remember, it was nearly a year ago that one of my closest friends made the decision to call me some names. And those names and what she told me has stuck to me every fucking day since then.
I stopped being friends with her and she's never apologized.
Those words never left me and they cut so deep. I never expected them to come out of my so called "best friends" mouth.
Did you try talking to her? Maybe you should. You should ask her if she meant what she said, and try talking it out in a cival manner.
So drop it. You guys know exactly what I mean when I say “don’t think you’re fat” so stop looking for an argument. Because I’m not going to argue. I never said there was anything wrong with fat. I said everyone is beautiful and they are. End of discussion.
purex asked: whats wrong with being fat
oh no dont save yourself now
what is wrong with being happily fat
For the record: I never said fat was a bad thing. I didn’t even mean it as fat. I meant “fat” as in, girls who think if they don’t weigh 10 pounds they are “fat”
Anonymous asked: your last post inspired the shit out of me. thank you so much for being such a fucking beautyful person.
Thank you for reading it. I’m really glad that it inspired you. I just don’t want anyone to feel the way I did. Its no way to live. <3
Don’t. Every single fucking one of you are beautiful. From your head to your toes. And if one person doesn’t see that, then they are blind. Everything that you hate about yourself: someone later in your life is going to love immensely. So don’t even think about ending your life. It DOES get better. It really does. I swear to you, one day someone will find you to be the most beautiful human being on this earth, and you will be so happy that you don’t even have the energy to frown anymore.
And don’t just think “Oh, you’re naive. You couldn’t even understand how I feel.” No. I used to cry when I looked into the mirror. Before I got braces, before I started to pluck my eyebrows, or take care of my skin. It was horrible. I can’t even tell you the horrible feeling I got in my tummy when I looked in the mirror. It just sunk whenever I looked at my reflection, and I would ask myself in my mind “Why can’t you look like the girl in the magazine.” DON’T do that. We are all beautiful. All of us. And I know that for a fact. This will only make you stronger, and more beautiful if you fight this horrible feeling.
Anonymous asked: I know I'm pretty. I feel okay about my size. Sure I could be smaller but I'm not huge and I'm fairly healthy. I'm in theatre and acting though and I know I'll never get a lead being my size. I need to be small. Acting is my passion but sometimes I feel like my passion is suffocating me and I'll never look good enough and it hurts so much.
Honestly, I think that you would still get a lead part. Look at Christina Hendricks! Not only that, but if your talent is true, and you are putting your whole heart into your acting I highly doubt your size is going to matter. Just be confident, and it will actually help a great deal. And for the record, I bet you are beautiful.
Anonymous asked: I love my girlfriend. So much. But I've spent a lot of time thinking about whether or not we're right for each other... sometimes I think we so so SO are. Sometimes I feel like something's wrong... we haven't had a nice conversation where no one gets upset in so long... I don't know what to do or if I should do anything or if I should just let whatever happens, happen and not worry about it.
If you love her, and you definately feel for her, then I would say stay with her. Obviously if you love her, you ARE meant to be together. Just make a little effort to try and have a nice conversation, or maybe go out on a weird/fun date that you wouldn’t usually do, spice it up abit!
themadness-vase asked: This is such a great idea. If you ever need someone to vent to, you may come to my ask box. :) <3
Aww, thank you so much sweetheart! Will do! You are so beautiful inside and out! <33